But my people would not listen to me . . . Psalm 81:11
We have all been there . . . excitedly sharing a thought, idea or need when suddenly we become aware that it has fallen on deaf ears, aware that we have been shut out or overlooked. How insignificant, disrespected and even demeaning it feels to be disregarded so! Perhaps it bothers us even more so when we believe we have
always made it a practice to attempt to listen to what others say, and not to have that reciprocated hurts. Then again, if we really think about it, how many times have we affirmed words spoken to us, when in reality we have not "heard" a word at all?
This brings to mind a hearing impaired friend of mine from Maine, who "hears" better than most people I know. Due to this challenge, she uses all of her senses to really listen to those around her. It is not only necessary that she listen attentively with the use of hearing devices, but it seems that in her effort to "really listen," she is able to comprehend the depth of what is actually going on within the other person, taking what she hears to another level; a level that is an example for all of us. The depth of her caring heart is felt by all who know her.
Many times and for many reasons, we do not want to hear the words spoken to us and turn a deaf ear, so to speak. How often have we placated the person in our presence with a yes, knowing full well we have done so, without comprehending what is being said, and along our merry way we go, only to find out later how important that conversation was to that person and in the long run, us also? The consequence of truly not paying attention to conversations may mean the difference not only between a good or failed decision, but also perhaps the cost of a relationship.
In this Psalm God says that his people would not listen. He clearly spoke to them, to their hearts; in His laws, in His miracles, His words and in His gifts to them; in every sense. But they chose not listen. Just like the people He speaks about in Scripture, we also each have that choice to make in our relationship with God and with others. Do we choose to listen? What do you hear?
When I am finding it difficult to listen because I am wrapped up in self, please help me Lord to attune my "hearing" to your voice and the voices of those around me.
Copyright© 2013 Kathleen A. Matson