March 6
Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him. Matthew 6:8
Isn’t it a wonderful feeling to be with very close family and friends; the ones who know and love us just as we are? A friend of mine used to frequently utter, “Warts and all!” in reference to feeling deeply loved despite all the flaws she saw in herself. How comforting to be in the presence of people who know our likes and dislikes; who share in our joys and sorrows; the ones right there to bring that much needed cup of tea when we’re trying to relax, maybe in pajamas looking a sight; the ones to offer a word of encouragement or consolation at just the right moment or who just enjoy being with us – who honestly love us. There is no pretense. There is no need to put on a “fresh” face or do our best to make a good presentation. There is no need to impress or to have everything “perfect” about ourselves or in our surroundings. In the company of that much trust and acceptance, we are able to let go and allow ourselves to bask in the presence of one another, comfortable and open to the relationship.
My husband and I often laugh together, when one or the other has already completed a small task needing attention which the other had set out to do. We do it frequently and typically because we observe the need and consider the other person. It is easy to want to help alleviate some of the responsibility for our loved ones, but also, needs become more evident the more we know one another – the more we love.
In the love of family and friends and our relationship with them, God gives us a glimpse of the depth of His love for us. He longs for us to be “comfortable” in His presence. Similar to our earthly loved ones’ demonstrations of love for us despite our failings, He wants us to fully feel loved and accepted by Him just as we are. There is no expected requirement that must be met. We do not have to prove ourselves to Him. God knows us - He knows us completely and loves us unconditionally. He knows our every need before we are aware of its appearance in our lives. He is “family,” our best friend; there to soothe, to comfort, to encourage, and to provide for our every need. Why? Just because He loves us.
Father, thank you for the comfort of your loving kindness and for providing for our every need. Copyright© 2014 Kathleen A. Matson